We all have our flaws, and wise women understand that the likelihood of meeting the perfect man is zero. However, there is a category of men whose shortcomings go beyond all reasonable boundaries. We are talking about the so-called womanizers who really love female attention and do not want to burden their lives with a serious relationship. In this article you will learn what signs indicate that a guy is a womanizer.
A typical womanizer has charisma, attractiveness and good manners, however, behind the external charm hides a “snake-tempter” who easily breaks women’s hearts. The main disadvantage of a womanizer is that he cannot and does not want to remain faithful to the object of his passion. Falling in love with and charming women is a kind of fun for him, which he is unlikely to ever part with.
Fortunately, the behavior of an overly loving man has characteristic features that should alert you. Here are the top 7 signs that indicate your boyfriend is a womanizer..
1. He pays attention to other women.
All men love attractive women, and there is nothing wrong with that. But no normal man will spray attention on other representatives of the fair sex in front of his girlfriend, realizing that this is offensive and unpleasant for her. But since the womanizer lacks any moral principles, he will have no problem flirting with you and a couple of other beauties he likes.
2. He speaks negatively about his ex.
Psychologically mature people try to adhere to one unspoken principle - not to tell their partner about their former relationship. And even if such conversations cannot be avoided, a worthy man will not “throw mud at” his ex-girlfriend, but, most likely, will limit himself to a couple of general phrases. However, a womanizer operates according to a completely different scheme. If you believe his stories, then this man’s ex-girlfriend is the devil in the flesh, who inflicted many emotional wounds on him. By speaking negatively about his ex, a womanizer is just trying to make you feel pity.
3. He constantly communicates on the phone and social networks
Modern girls have to put up with the fact that a romantic date can be interrupted by a phone call, after which the man will decide important work issues. However, if the phone is a man’s eternal companion, most likely it’s not a matter of work. If your boyfriend constantly responds to texts and messages on social networks while he's with you, dump him immediately. Firstly, this is basic disrespect and bad manners. And, secondly, there is a high probability that the guy communicates with his fans at the same time.
4. Lots of compliments
Every womanizer has the talent of an orator and a master of the verbal genre. This man will give you the most graceful, funny and sweet compliments, after which you will involuntarily lose your vigilance. Of course, the ability to speak beautifully does not automatically make a man a ladies' man. But you should be wary if compliments flow from a guy’s lips in an endless stream and, moreover, seem too pretentious and exaggerated.
5. Perfect courtship
Men who call themselves professional pick-up artists know a lot about women's weaknesses. If he has decided that you should become the next chapter in his list of achievements, he will do everything possible to make a worthy impression on you. Most often, womanizers act in the style of romantic melodramas, the heroes of which give their girls scarlet roses, write sweet SMS, wait for them from work, make pleasant surprises, etc. Of course, absolutely all men in love want to surround the object of their passion with care and attention, but a womanizer does this too intrusively and quickly.
6. Unexpected disappearances
If you are unlucky and find yourself in the network of a womanizer, get ready for the fact that very soon he will unexpectedly disappear for several days, and then appear and behave as if nothing had happened. The womanizer will explain his mysterious disappearances with very important and urgent matters - poor health, the arrival of distant relatives, problems at work, etc. But don't rush to console him. In fact, the man who was a ladies' man was only absent from your life because he was spending time with other women.
7. He doesn't rush things
There are two categories of womanizers - those who immediately strive for close relationships, and those who do not rush things. In the first case, you will feel something is wrong literally from the first date, because the behavior of a man who strives only for intimacy speaks for itself. But the womanizer from the second category is more insidious. This person will first surround you with attention, make you fall in love with him, and then pull away a little, tying you even more to himself.
One or two signs from this list do not mean that your boyfriend is a womanizer. It is possible that in some moments the behavior of a womanizer and the behavior of a serious-minded man may have similar features. But if every point seems to be copied from your new acquaintance, there is no doubt - he is a typical womanizer, from whom you should stay away.
Good day, dear readers. In this article we will talk about what a womanizer man is. You will learn what the main signs of such behavior are, what factors influence the development of such a personality. You will know how to deal with womanizers.
Types
- Esthete. He considers all women beautiful and admires them. Such a person is always surrounded by a company of girls. He has a lot of female friends, but only one of his mistresses.
- An amorous womanizer. As a rule, he is represented by a creative nature. Having fallen in love once, he believes that it is forever. However, such a person’s feelings suddenly appear and disappear just as quickly. He is constantly looking for a new muse.
- Athlete. Its main purpose is sex. Such a person does not care what a girl looks like or what her name is. He is not interested in relationships, it is important for him to get as many victories as possible over women, persuading them to have sex. Such womanizers have a fairly large number of victims, because they have the ability to fool a girl’s head and seduce her. At the same time, they do not think at all about the consequences. In small towns such a person will not survive, since his business will become known very quickly. Therefore, such people successfully “hunt” in megacities.
- Heartbreaker. Quite a dangerous guy. For such a person, it is not important to conquer only the body. Wants to have the whole girl. The womanizer easily gains her trust and surrounds her with care and attention. The girl is sure that he is in love with her and is ready for anything. However, as soon as such a person conquers the young lady, he breaks up with her. It seems like this guy gets his kicks from breaking hearts.
- Hidden womanizer. He will behave secretly, as if he is afraid of general publicity. Officially, he has no relationship with girls. But at the same time he has secret novels that follow one after another. In public, he can bypass girls in the tenth way. Thanks to this behavior, he develops an attractive image, which attracts girls who think that they are the only ones in his life.
Causes
Let's look at why men who are womanizers play with girls' hearts and what factors influence this.
- Reluctance to build serious relationships.
- Innate polygamy forces one to constantly change girls.
- Fear of new feelings, in particular, if there is a bad experience.
- The desire to take revenge on the entire female race due to the fact that there was previously unrequited love or betrayal on the part of the beloved girl.
- An opportunity to assert yourself and increase your authority.
Main manifestations
Let's look at what the signs of a womanizer man are.
- When meeting a girl, he behaves relaxed, relaxed, self-confident and open.
- He talks a lot about himself, pointing out his determination and success, although in the grand scheme of things, there is nothing to brag about.
- In a conversation with him, the girl will hear a lot of compliments that will seem rote and will sound banal. He can read lines from the works of famous classics, thus emphasizing his romanticism.
- A womanizer dresses beautifully, has stylish accessories, and an attractive and well-groomed appearance.
- Already on the first date, he can pay attention to other girls.
- He makes appointments for the evening.
- He is in no hurry to introduce the girl to his friends and relatives.
- May speak negatively about a previous partner, indicating that she ruined their relationship. In this way he tries to evoke sympathy from a new passion.
- He often gets stuck on his phone and chats on social networks.
- A man who wants to conquer his next victim will do everything to make the date perfect.
- When dating a womanizer, a girl should be prepared for the fact that he may have unexpected urgent matters. For this reason, he will be able to escape at any moment.
- A womanizer will either immediately try to drag his partner into bed, or he will not rush things. He will act insidiously to make the girl fall in love with him more.
Womanizer in love
One fine day such a person will decide to settle down, move on from his turbulent past and start a family. One person realizes this at a fairly young age, another at a more mature age, and a third may live his whole life alone.
When a girl appears on a womanizer’s life path that he truly loves, it will be very difficult to start a relationship with her. Such a person is used to conquering everyone around him and rejoicing in his victories. But it’s difficult for him to imagine how to behave next to someone who is truly dear to you. Ridiculous actions are not excluded. A guy may say compliments inappropriately and will smile inappropriately. Everything that used to be very easy now causes difficulties, because these actions are conscious, and he is afraid of losing his beloved.
If a girl knows about such a guy’s past, she should not remind him of it, reproach him or be jealous of all his exes. There is no need to try to change it, because it itself will change over time, you just need to wait.
Features of communication with such a person
A girl who decides to have such a relationship must be confident in her feelings and the desire to regularly fight for them and face constant difficulties.
- Take control of your relationship. The girl must choose the place and time for dates herself. But it is important not to overdo it, otherwise the guy will be afraid that you are dominant and will break off the relationship.
- Remember that the young man is interested in conquering the object of his affection, therefore, put off intimate relationships for as long as possible. Let him try to conquer you. Let the person know that you are interested in a committed relationship.
- Don’t be afraid to confront him, express dissatisfaction with some of his character traits or bad habits. Such a man needs a girl with character.
- You don’t need to give in to your partner even on small things. A womanizer must face resistance from you.
- A girl should demand a good attitude towards her person.
How to punish a womanizer
If you want to punish a man who has broken more than one woman’s heart, you have two options, a simpler one and a more complex one.
- A girl can make such a guy feel like he is in the shoes of his victim. To do this, she must seduce him, make him fall in love with her, use him and abandon him.
- A rather complicated method is to try to convince a man that he has the wrong views on life and his behavior is wrong. To convince you that love is a wonderful feeling, you don’t need to use women’s hearts to satisfy your ambitions.
Now you know what psychology says about womanizers, their causes and manifestations. Before starting a relationship with such a person, think carefully about whether you need such a partner and whether you have the strength to change him. Be careful and don’t fall into the womanizer’s network, don’t become his next victim.
Nowadays we often talk about karma in the relationship between a man and a woman, spiritual connections from past lives, the law of attraction and the predetermination of fate. And many women perceive the man who happens to be next to her at this moment in life as a kindred spirit. She always sees it as her mission, destiny, the will of heaven. And the fact that he is not at all what she dreamed of, the fact that he makes her unhappy, this must be endured. So this is what karma is like. Even if a man raises his hand against her, humiliates her feminine dignity, insults her. Even if a man is a womanizer, she prefers to turn a blind eye to his endless betrayals and suffer in silence. Work off invented karma.
How many problems we have in life because of our own stupidity! And karma has absolutely nothing to do with it. We simply come up with a convenient excuse for what is happening, and the roots do not lie in the mistakes of a past life. Of course, I myself write that when a husband cheats on his wife, it means that she needs to think about her behavior. But now we are not talking about legal marriage, this is the first thing. And secondly, we are talking about an unbreakable, incorrigible womanizer, who is imbued with love for all women to the very bones. There is such a category of men - seducers. And now you are hooked. It was not he who fell for your charms, but you for his. And the relationship seems to be starting, becoming serious, only he continues to lie all the time, after which you discover the inviolable fact of betrayal. And then another one. And further. And his promises begin that this is the last time, declarations of love and pleas for forgiveness. You don't have to endure all this! This is not karma!
Karma is the fact that you attracted this man into your life. And all you need to do in order to work it out is to understand why you attracted him. Correct this in yourself and wait for a truly worthy man who is destined for you.
If a man who is a womanizer has entered your life, it means one thing. You consider yourself worthy of such a man. You have low self-esteem, self-doubt is off the charts, and subconsciously you believe that you do not deserve such happiness as to be with a decent man. But a womanizer will devote time to you and will go to others. This is not your man! He gives his love to other women in exactly the same quantity as he gives to you. Are you close to him? This means you think that you are unworthy of the best.
What to do if the man next to you is a womanizer?
1. Raise your self-esteem, learn to love, respect and value yourself. Read how to do this in the article and book. Only when you yourself realize that you deserve better can you break off this relationship.
3. Forgive this man. For hurting you. For deceiving your hopes and expectations. For bringing suffering and disappointment to your soul. And with him, forgive all the men who have ever been in your life. Without forgiveness, you will not restore your integrity and will not be ready for a new relationship.
Hi all!!!
This definition is true in a sense, but it is definitely worth adding one point, a womanizer is a man who loves all his women.
Psychological portrait of a womanizer
- A courteous, gallant man who opens the door for women and pours champagne for them at a corporate evening.
- An active worker, helpful to his superiors, quickly moving up the career ladder. He is often quite boastful and likes to lie about his merits; he is ready to promise anything, but not fulfill it.
- Appears while his wife spends most of her time in the shadows, taking care of the children (if he has any). He may have many children from different women, but he does not pay attention to them as much as he does to his wife.
- Friends are always comfortable with him, because in most cases he tries to seduce his interlocutor, to win him over by almost any means, again, by promising anything.
In the behavior of a typical womanizer, the main intention is always self-affirmation in society, attracting the attention of the majority, he constantly tries to be the best, to succeed in something, and what is most surprising is that he easily succeeds. But as often happens, behind this feeling of constantly boiling life, joy and entertainment, behind these “butterflies in the stomach” there is an emptiness that a man tries to fill with eternal holidays, women and envy in the eyes of other men. Most actions, accordingly, are performed for show.
There are several types of womanizers
Womanizer - loner. A sensitive, infantile man who, as he grew older, never started a family, may live with his mother, but constantly “jumps” from holiday to holiday. The reasons for this behavior can be, for example, childhood traumas: An overbearing mother, who at one time simply “absorbed” the boy with, in her opinion, unnecessary care. In fact, she crushed the child with unjustified cruelty. Now this boy is afraid of any emotional rapprochement with women, and having received sex, physical and moral satisfaction from them, having risen in the eyes of other people, he gradually merges. He finds some absolutely ridiculous minor flaws in women, thereby devaluing them. He just doesn't answer their messages or calls.
A womanizer who is married to a boring woman. Such a man is a priori confident in the promiscuity of most women, but there is no shame in using this promiscuity. Such a womanizer finds himself a quiet wife - the absolute opposite of those with whom he sleeps, who is the embodiment of a beautiful mother and cook, a wife who will almost idolize him. But the man sees in her no more than a good, reliable friend who will never betray or abandon her, so he always runs away to the side of bright sensations.
A womanizer who periodically changes his wives, while constantly being in sexual relationships with many mistresses. Such a man may have more than one child from different women. This is the most charismatic and life-loving type; the thought never creeps into his head that with his adventures he could cause pain and moral torment to someone.
Why do men become womanizers?
In the vast majority of cases, this is constitutional - biological reasons and predispositions, a special work of higher nervous activity. Often these are active choleric extroverts. Hormones in this case play a huge role, although they also play a role in this behavior, but the main point is heredity.
What kind of women choose womanizers?
Not every woman chooses a womanizer as her sexual partner, much less as her husband. Only females of a certain type are capable of this step. For example, this is a woman with an exaggerated “sense of goodness”, trying to stand out from her male husband. She can say that she does everything for him. She gives herself all to him, but he ruined her whole life. In this character, the constancy of some kind of competition is obvious: the woman sees that her husband, after many adventures, still returns to her and thus she feels her victory in the imaginary competition. In her mind it sounds like: “So I’m better after all.”
How to live with a womanizer
Firstly, a man is a holiday starter for any company. This is a cheerful friend, a good comrade with whom you can have a great time and have fun. But it’s worth building a relationship and starting a family with a more reliable person. Secondly, if a woman nevertheless decides to start a family with such a man, then she needs to know that it is impossible to correct a womanizer. It's all due to genetics. Only illness or old age can interfere with a husband’s adventures.
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Our Borka is a womanizer and Sasha is a womanizer,
Seryoga is also a womanizer.
And who is not a womanizer, who is not a womanizer?
Yes, the one who has never seen women.
"Dune"
I was asked to write about why some men become womanizers. So I decided to figure out who a womanizer is and whether it is possible to build a relationship with him.
If you look at Wikipedia, a womanizer is a man who shows an increased interest in women. And if you look from a medical point of view, some womanizers suffer from a disease called intimate phobia. The most interesting thing is that it occurs in both men and women.
Intimophobia is the avoidance of close, long-term emotional relationships with a sexual partner.
Intimophobia indicates that improper upbringing of a child in single-parent families or unbalanced mothers who could lash out at the child also showed their disrespectful attitude towards men. The child absorbs this and does not want such an attitude towards himself in the future. As a result, a man develops a fear of a long-term relationship.
Most often, intimate phobes are lonely or quickly get divorced. But, the most interesting thing is that they can be very intellectually developed and achieve great success in their careers and in society. The most important feature of intimate phobes is a strong desire for sex, but at the same time a reluctance to spend money on a partner.
Intimophobes are great for those who are looking for short-term connections, but not for those who want a serious relationship. It is advisable not to build relationships with intimate phobias in order to avoid problems, since intimate phobia is a disease that needs to be treated.
Why do people still become womanizers?
Most often this happens if a man is offended by a woman. Broken love! Men's pride is hurt! Therefore, some men avoid serious relationships so as not to experience disappointment again, and some simply deliberately take revenge on all women.
It can also be noted that a womanizer has a certain amount of self-doubt. In this way he tries to assert himself. And he strives to seduce beautiful, smart, unavailable women. It's like another trophy to add to his collection. And thus, it seems to him, he increases his self-esteem. But in the end he feels empty.
Men who are womanizers also have positive qualities: they are cheerful, generous, sexy, and sociable. Womanizers are often in a state of love; they can look after you beautifully and speak beautifully. They are in a constant state of celebration. Therefore, many women are attracted to such men. And some women even get excited that they can change such men. But more often than not, these women remain trophies.
Types of womanizers
Type No. 1 Sex machine
As a rule, they are sex addicts. For them, addiction is the same illness as drug addiction or alcoholism. All they have on their mind is sex. Most often they have promiscuous sex. For them, a woman is like a sport, like some kind of training equipment. His goal is not to please a woman, his goal is to please himself.
Type No. 2 Don Juan
This womanizer simply loves women, he adores them. He doesn't know where he will meet his passion next time.
This type of womanizer is very cheerful, sociable and generous; he also has sensuality and spiritual eroticism. With them the soul opens up. You feel welcome next to him. There is a lot of romance present. He looks with a loving gaze that is impossible to resist. A man gives a woman the feeling that she is special.
This type of man most often leaves behind very pleasant memories for a woman. Don Juans are most often looking for the ideal woman. This type of womanizer is capable of deep feelings and such men most often marry the woman they love. But even after marriage, he will not miss the opportunity to give a smile or a compliment to other women.
Type No. 3 Lovelace
Some sweet boy who brags about his connections. He has a very large list in the phone book. Most often, he meets several passions at the same time, he is afraid of being abandoned, there is a plan for a week or a month in advance, with whom and when he will meet.
It is very fashionable and stylish, and is popular among women. His telephone list usually consists of: “Natasha Dnepr”, “Sveta Moscow”, “Lena Rostov”, “Katya Kyiv”. No matter what city he goes to, a wonderful evening with a young lady from his phone book always awaits him. This type of womanizer most often includes men who have had their hearts broken or who are unsure of themselves. The womanizer-womanizer feeds on the energy of the fact that many women want him. He really likes to be around ladies.
Of course, if that unique one appears in his life, he will give up his list of ladies. But if possible, he will definitely meet with Katya from Kyiv.
Who falls for womanizers?
Inexperienced girls. Women who lack attention. Naive, lonely women craving romance.
Advice to Women: If you see that a man is a womanizer, then behave differently. Give him time to recognize in you the very ideal woman he has been looking for for so long. Become a friend to him, first of all, heal him with your love. Perhaps he will become the most devoted man in your life, since he understands that each subsequent relationship only devastates him.
Real life example: I have a friend who is a womanizer and has had more than 100 women. I once asked him a question: “Please tell me, out of a hundred women, wasn’t there one you wanted to focus on?” To which he answered me: “Perhaps she was, but we simply did not have enough time to get to know each other better. If I now had the opportunity to change all the women for one who would be real and accept me for who I am, I would do it without hesitation.” We can conclude: out of a hundred women, he needs only one.
The paradox is that every womanizer remembers the woman who sincerely loved him or simply accepted him for who he is.
I really like O.G.’s statement. Torsunova: “If a man is a womanizer, women can enjoy him, but they will never respect him.”
Relationship coach Rozary Gritskevich
A womanizer lives in every man, like a piece of his “I”. First of all, this is a man who cares about the female gender. In addition, his wives almost always reciprocate his feelings. After all, you must admit, it’s hard to call a man who is not successful with women a womanizer.
Another important point is that womanizers are attracted to educated, well-groomed, stylishly dressed women. Why then is it so contemptuous - a womanizer? Does the cat want to denigrate the connoisseur of female beauty and the favorite of almost all the ladies? The answer is obvious: men who are angry with envy and jealous wives. Such people try to blame “womanizers” for all conceivable and unimaginable sins. They say that all the broken hearts, seduced wives, and destroyed families are on their conscience.
Plus, to all this, they are also carriers of most unpleasant diseases. It seems that humanity does not know about condoms, and other people’s women are either so stupid that they are not able to answer for their own actions, or the purpose of their life is to cheat on their own faithful. In general, something is clearly not going well here.
How to deal with a womanizing husband
Many people believe that excessive affection towards the female sex is a habit. This is equivalent to smoking or being addicted to the computer. And you can get rid of any habit if you want. It is not easy, but it does not lead to harmful consequences. This opinion is wrong. After all, the “womanizer” lives in the inner self. So you should not hope that the “womanizer” will change. With such success you can demand from a person that he change his temperament.
If you manage to marry a womanizer, you have five options for behavior: try to re-educate; force him to hide his love affairs; refresh your relationship with your husband so that he notices only you; get divorced; endure all your life; accept and love your husband for who he is.
Attempts to re-educate an adult man usually do not lead to a positive result. But for the sake of the peace of mind of the woman he loves, that is, you, he can give up his addictions. But we must take into account that this will be a huge sacrifice for him. And this will not bring joy to anyone. After all, for such a man, success with a woman is a special incentive that pushes him to exploits and makes him successful. This is the meaning of his life. If you take away this incentive from a womanizing husband, he will instantly wilt and stop being himself. Most likely, you yourself do not want to be around this person.
Sometimes a good way to solve a problem is the life position “what I don’t know about doesn’t exist.” If this option is acceptable to both, then the problem can be considered solved. But in reality, such happiness does not last long. As soon as bad thoughts begin to pop up in a woman’s head and the first signs of jealousy appear, tactics urgently need to be changed. Since this, subsequently, can develop into total distrust and an attempt to take control of every step.
You can also just go your separate ways. But there is nothing to discuss here. Or rather, a separate article can be written about peaceful divorce. But here it doesn’t matter what caused the separation.
You shouldn’t tolerate it, and it won’t work. The torment that a loving woman experiences from betrayal is almost impossible to endure and it is impossible to get used to it. It feels like you're walking on broken glass without shoes. Only these glasses hurt not your legs, but your soul, cutting your self-confidence to shreds. Love brings no joy at all. Trying to tolerate such feelings is like slowly killing yourself.
The ideal option in such a situation is to try to look at the problem from a different angle. It's not as difficult as it seems at first glance. After all, your beloved man feels good, why does this make you feel bad?
Why are his love affairs so upsetting to you? After all, his hobbies take up no more time than football or computer games - the standard hobbies of other men. If you don’t consider your womanizing husband your property, and stop perceiving his addictions as a crime, then the problem will disappear without a trace by itself.
The advantages of being a womanizer's wife
- The womanizer's wife feels like the best. After all, even with a huge number of other women, he always returns to her.
- Understanding that the best man belongs to her. Because a huge number of sleek, smart women want to be in his arms.
- Womanizing husbands are often excellent lovers.
- An adequate womanizer will not pester his wife with constant suspicions of infidelity.
Girls, in pursuit of men, sometimes come across such outcast guys who are called womanizers. Womanizers are a unique type of men who can very skillfully seduce almost any girl. It very often happens that they can amaze even the most experienced girl and make her behave in a defeatist manner that is humiliating and inexplicable. And then the girl faces the question: how to deal with a womanizer? make him fall in love with you or leave him?
We must assure you that not every girl who already has extensive experience communicating with a womanizer is able to easily leave him. This happens because not all representatives of the fair half of humanity know for sure that it is better to do this right away, before a feeling of a broken heart appears, which is quite difficult, with the support of friends, to heal from mental wounds. Womanizers make women fall in love with them very easily and quickly.
How to deal with a womanizer
If you are one of those girls for whom a serious relationship is not important, but are only looking for a companion for one night, then womanizers are the guys you need. We can say that they are good lovers, whose task is to satisfy the woman, while increasing their rating and reputation. Therefore, if you are a girl who is not amorous and you have no desire for a serious relationship, then the easiest way would be to use the unique services of this type of man and say goodbye to him the next morning.
Whether you fall in love with him or leave him is up to you. But still, be prepared that you can achieve both with great difficulty. Because these are the kind of people who are capable of bewitching a girl and taking advantage of her naivety.
How to make a womanizer fall in love with you?
1) This is not to say that you will succeed one hundred percent, but you can still try. First, you must understand that he has such a lifestyle, he loves women, so you should be patient and be prepared for constant betrayal on his part. If you still decide make a womanizer fall in love with you then understand that it will be difficult for him to say goodbye to his past, but if you are sure that you are ready for difficulties, then success.
2) Such men practically do not experience any emotional attachment or this kind of feelings, but love only superficially, so you must become such a girl for him, which he had never met before. For example, when you meet, reject him with some witty phrase from a daring bitch and slowly leave, after which he will want to get you even more.
3) No matter what kind of man he is, he definitely turns him on and excites him female inaccessibility. But in this regard, you should also not overdo it, because this person may simply become uninteresting in you and he will switch to a more affordable option. You need to be a kind of hard-to-get coquette who wants a man to run after her and woo her. Maintain a gentle flirtation with him, make passionate eye contact, but don't even let him touch you. Believe me, this will hurt him, even very much. And you will become his first lady on the way to his heart.
4) If you have already had an intimate relationship with him, and this is most likely the case, then become for him unpredictable. Constantly intrigue him with unsolved behavior. Even if he disappears, send him a message with the following content: “Thank you dear, it was good with you. It’s just…”, believe me, this will really hurt him, because the question will constantly be spinning in his head: what was wrong? The main thing is to keep a slight intrigue, but don’t play around.
As sad as it may be, womanizers are very common in the life of almost every woman. Basically, these are well-groomed men who know a lot about seducing women. It is very difficult to interest them, and it is generally very difficult to make a womanizer fall in love with you. But we’re not looking for easy ways, are we?
Psychologists say that you should act in relation to them using the same methods. Naturally, you need to use methods that may seem inappropriate for ordinary men.
How to interest and make a womanizer fall in love with you
If you think that there is something wrong with you, since you have fallen in love with a womanizer, do not rush to look for “marriage” in yourself. This desire in women is caused by a prehistoric instinct; if they see that a male is very popular with other females, this means that he is, as it were, marked with a mark of quality.
This is true, as a rule, many womanizers are very handsome men who are liked by almost everyone and conquer women wholesale, just by entering the room.
Many girls dream of such a man, without thinking that having gotten such a copy, they will have to put up with the fact that every stranger passing by is staring at their soulmate for the rest of their lives. If this doesn’t scare you, try to make a womanizer fall in love with you with the help of our tips.
The most important thing is to work on yourself. Create an image so that a womanizer can pay attention to you and become interested in you. A little mysterious, different from others. And he will immediately become interested in you;
Make him play by your rules to make a womanizer fall in love with you. Let him think that it is his person who is being given so much attention. After all, womanizers are narcissistic. Take all the power into your own hands. Let mutual friends introduce you. And keep going;
Move away from him a little. Pretend that you are indifferent to him, but at the same time sometimes flirt and smile. The intrigue will awaken great interest in him. He will begin to think - what kind of person is this who seems to be paying attention to him, and at the same time, does not let him near her. This is where his pride begins to hurt. And plus mystery. And men love to solve these kinds of riddles. Everything should be in moderation;
Interest him in your intelligence, erudition, and ability to support any topic in order to make a womanizer fall in love with you;
You shouldn’t immediately agree to a date. Let him work a little to achieve this;
Don't rush to jump into bed with him right away. As usual, after this their interest in you will decrease. He will give you another plus sign, give you another number for himself, and almost that’s it. Such people do not start serious relationships. It's not in their best interest. To make a womanizer fall in love with you, do everything to prevent this from happening for as long as possible. Then it will practically be yours;
Well, the last thing. You must have high self-esteem, or at least show him that. Don't let him think that you are as available as everyone else.
And, having done all these steps, you will definitely interest a womanizer. And perhaps he will be your life partner. After all, even they someday understand that they can be left alone.
How to quietly make a womanizer fall in love with you
To make a womanizer fall in love with you, the first thing you need to do is attract the attention of this young man. Try to structure the situation in such a way that your mutual acquaintances introduce you to him, but prepare properly for this meeting, “arm yourself”, try to give the impression of an interesting and mysterious woman, so that he, as they say, “pecks at the bait.”
You definitely need to keep yourself somewhat aloof and not show that you are interested in this guy, I’ll say right away that this is not at all easy and you need to have good acting skills and self-control, but these abilities are generally useful in life.
Try not to react too actively to his statements and humor. You will interest him and he will have a desire to impress you, because he has no idea about your plans. Just don’t stay too distant, otherwise he might get tired and stop trying to win you over.
Keep him on his toes and sometimes give him an incentive to keep pursuing you and ultimately make the womanizer fall in love with you. You can allow him to meet with you some other time, believe me, he will be waiting for this meeting and will come to it already prepared.
Your next step is to interest him in your personal qualities, show him that you are a very interesting person with whom he is very interested in spending time, this will greatly puzzle him and greatly reduce his ambition, which will certainly be to your advantage.
Sexual relations are a very important point. Try to delay them as long as possible so that he dreams about it. Because if he gets you easily, you will turn out to be another victory for the womanizer, and most likely your relationship will stop developing.
How to fix a womanizer?
Although every man considers himself an incorrigible womanizer at heart, in fact, a womanizer belongs to a completely special type of man, although quite common in our time.
How to correct a womanizer and is it possible to achieve success in this difficult matter? To make a womanizer fall in love with you, be prepared for the fact that you will need all your will and iron self-control.
Alas, although womanizers are quite attractive, they know female psychology well, and every woman can feel like a queen when communicating with him, the key word here is “everyone”. A womanizer is not able to stop there; he will constantly strive to find a new goal and a new partner. That's his nature.
· It makes sense to beat a womanizer with his own weapon. In other words, if you are confident in your abilities, you can show him that you, too, are not blind, and he can take over your body, but in order to conquer your soul, he will have to work very, very hard.
To make a womanizer fall in love with you, you can allow yourself a lot in bed, but as soon as morning comes, the bird must fly away and this night does not mean any rapprochement. Set a strict distance that he will have to overcome every time he wants to see you again. And of course - no phone calls or intimate conversations.
· The womanizer is not used to such treatment, and he will constantly be gnawing at the thought that he never managed to conquer you. This will force him to attack again and again with the same result. If he is too persistent, feign bewilderment, saying that we are adults, well, we got pleasure from each other - what more? Everything was great – but that’s where we’ll end.
· Since the womanizer is accustomed to dictating terms and being the master of the situation, such a reaction will completely confuse him. A woman who does not fit into the stack of his victories will be an unconquered peak for him, which he is obliged to conquer, if only out of self-esteem. Otherwise, what kind of womanizer is he?
· You can play with him this way for a while, and if you notice that the eternal waiting is starting to bother him, you can start another game. Show him that you like him, but you are resisting because you are not sure that he is your prince, whom you have been waiting for all your life. Then he will try to dispel these doubts in your soul.
· In fact, womanizers, despite all their victories, are full of internal complexes and self-doubt. And all their adventures are just a way to prove to themselves that they are the best. If he really feels this way with you, you may be able to make a womanizer fall in love with you.
Our Borka is a womanizer and Sasha is a womanizer,
Seryoga is also a womanizer.
And who is not a womanizer, who is not a womanizer?
Yes, the one who has never seen women.
"Dune"
I was asked to write an interesting article about why some men become womanizers. So I decided to figure out who a womanizer is and whether it is possible to build a relationship with him.
If you look at Wikipedia, a womanizer is a man who shows an increased interest in women. And if you look from a medical point of view, some womanizers suffer from a disease called intimate phobia. The most interesting thing is that it occurs in both men and women.
Intimophobia is the avoidance of close, long-term emotional relationships with a sexual partner.
Intimophobia indicates that improper upbringing of a child in single-parent families or unbalanced mothers who could lash out at the child also showed their disrespectful attitude towards men. The child absorbs this and does not want such an attitude towards himself in the future. As a result, a man develops a fear of a long-term relationship.
Most often, intimate phobes are lonely or quickly get divorced. But, the most interesting thing is that they can be very intellectually developed and achieve great success in their careers and in society. The most important feature of intimate phobes is a strong desire for sex, but at the same time a reluctance to spend money on a partner.
Intimophobes are great for those who are looking for short-term connections, but not for those who want a serious relationship. It is advisable not to build relationships with intimate phobias in order to avoid problems, since intimate phobia is a disease that needs to be treated.
Why do people still become womanizers?
Most often this happens if a man is offended by a woman. Broken love! Men's pride is hurt! Therefore, some men avoid serious relationships so as not to experience disappointment again, and some simply deliberately take revenge on all women.
It can also be noted that a womanizer has a certain amount of self-doubt. In this way he tries to assert himself. And he strives to seduce beautiful, smart, unavailable women. It's like another trophy to add to his collection. And thus, it seems to him, he increases his self-esteem. But in the end he feels empty.
Men who are womanizers also have positive qualities: they are cheerful, generous, sexy, and sociable. Womanizers are often in a state of love; they can look after you beautifully and speak beautifully. They are in a constant state of celebration. Therefore, many women are attracted to such men. And some women even get excited that they can change such men. But more often than not, these women remain trophies.
Types of womanizers
Type No. 1 Sex machine
As a rule, they are sex addicts. For them, addiction is the same illness as drug addiction or alcoholism. All they have on their mind is sex. Most often they have promiscuous sex. For them, a woman is like a sport, like some kind of training equipment. His goal is not to please a woman, his goal is to please himself.
Type No. 2 Don Juan
This womanizer simply loves women, he adores them. He doesn't know where he will meet his passion next time.
This type of womanizer is very cheerful, sociable and generous; he also has sensuality and spiritual eroticism. With them the soul opens up. You feel welcome next to him. There is a lot of romance present. He looks with a loving gaze that is impossible to resist. A man gives a woman the feeling that she is special.
This type of man most often leaves behind very pleasant memories for a woman. Don Juans are most often looking for the ideal woman. This type of womanizer is capable of deep feelings and such men most often marry the woman they love. But even after marriage, he will not miss the opportunity to give a smile or a compliment to other women.
Type No. 3 Lovelace
Some sweet boy who brags about his connections. He has a very large list in the phone book. Most often, he meets several passions at the same time, he is afraid of being abandoned, there is a plan for a week or a month in advance, with whom and when he will meet.
It is very fashionable and stylish, and is popular among women. His telephone list usually consists of: “Natasha Dnepr”, “Sveta Moscow”, “Lena Rostov”, “Katya Kyiv”. No matter what city he goes to, a wonderful evening with a young lady from his phone book always awaits him. This type of womanizer most often includes men who have had their hearts broken or who are unsure of themselves. The womanizer-womanizer feeds on the energy of the fact that many women want him. He really likes to be around ladies.
Of course, if that unique one appears in his life, he will give up his list of ladies. But if possible, he will definitely meet with Katya from Kyiv.
Who falls for womanizers?
Inexperienced girls. Women who lack attention. Naive, lonely women craving romance.
Advice to Women: If you see that a man is a womanizer, then behave differently. Give him time to recognize in you the very ideal woman he has been looking for for so long. Become a friend to him, first of all, heal him with your love. Perhaps he will become the most devoted man in your life, since he understands that each subsequent relationship only devastates him.
Real life example: I have a friend who is a womanizer and has had more than 100 women. I once asked him a question: “Please tell me, out of a hundred women, wasn’t there one you wanted to focus on?” To which he answered me: “Perhaps she was, but we simply did not have enough time to get to know each other better. If I now had the opportunity to change all the women for one who would be real and accept me for who I am, I would do it without hesitation.” We can conclude: out of a hundred women, he needs only one.
The paradox is that every womanizer remembers the woman who sincerely loved him or simply accepted him for who he is.
I really like O.G.’s statement. Torsunova: “If a man is a womanizer, women can enjoy him, but they will never respect him.”
Relationship coach Rozary Gritskevich
