A pick-up artist is the most pathetic type of womanizer, because he is not real, fake: in himself, he does not possess any of the qualities of a real womanizer, but he really wants to be one. That is why he memorizes pick-up artist manuals on seduction and tries to perform them in your presence. More often than not, he does it completely incompetently. “A pathetic, heartbreaking sight. Nightmare!" Recognizing such a pick-up artist is quite simple, since he operates according to one of three primitive schemes. The first is called “Cobweb”: the unfortunate pseudo-womanizer curls around you and entangles you with touches, like a cobweb. The second technique is “Revelation”: the pickup artist is keenly interested in you, but says nothing about himself and dodges leading questions. The third technique is “Break the pattern”: well, imagine that a young man swims up to you in the pool and impressively basses, “Lady, can you find a smoke?” These are three pillars of pick-up equipment, and you can easily figure them out and send this loser to some distant address.
Eternal youth
This relic character has long retired, but still imagines himself as the last romantic and hopes that you will give him your priceless attention in exchange for a stunted rose in cellophane, a bottle of port and stories about his stormy youth under the quiet bleating of Grebenshchikov. And you will give it for one night, because he has no idea what to do next: mentally he is always 16 years old, and in principle he is not capable of a relationship. In general, grandpa is completely safe, like sex in a chemical protective suit. And just as interesting. There is no need to escape from him, but it is advisable to go around him in a wide arc: grandpa is obsessive and does not understand direct refusals.
Macho
The first type of true womanizer on our list. A macho man constantly changes women because he is always looking for the perfect one. At the same time, he himself fully corresponds to the ideas of some girls about the ideal man: he seems to be the same “strong man” that many are looking for. In fact, he is a sexist and a chauvinist: he breaks up with a woman at the very moment when, in his opinion, she does something wrong. But the problem is that any woman will definitely do something “wrong” simply because the macho despises women and, by and large, does not consider them to be people. This is the most disgusting type of womanizer, try to shoot these types of people at long range.
Infantile
A pale young man with a burning gaze. A true ace of platonic relationships: you will never have such romantic dates as with him with anyone else. Because it will seem to you that no one else knows how to feel so subtly, to penetrate so deeply into a woman’s soul! But it is important to understand that the infant does not want to go beyond platonic relationships. You can have sex, yes. A few times, and then he gets scared. In his mind, the ideal romance is an endless candy-bouquet period. Which, as you understand, is impossible in principle: this very period either turns into a serious relationship or not. And the infantile is afraid of serious relationships like the devil of incense. The problem is that by the time you escape, you will probably fall head over heels in love with him. Dangerous guy!
Lieutenant Rzhevsky
If you’re going to get involved with a womanizer, then only with the brave lieutenant! This type loves life in all its manifestations, and that is the only reason he has so many women. He also has a great sense of humor, he is easy-going, interesting people always gather around him, and the time spent with him can be safely multiplied: in a week spent with this man, you will get so many new impressions, bright emotions and adventures, as much as I wouldn’t have gotten with someone else in a year. And finally, the best news: it’s easy to part with him, because from the very beginning he makes it clear that this story will not last long. Well, if, of course, you are ready to break up. In this case, the lieutenant will be happy to be friends with you. And if you’re not ready, then alas: if you try to put chains on the lieutenant, he turns into a monster. The monster is more terrible than the lieutenant from the jokes.
Casanova
And now, finally, we get to the real king of womanizers. The true Casanova is the standard of a womanizer. Everything about him is real, that’s why he’s dangerous. That is, if Casanova tells you that he loves you (and he will), you can be sure: it’s true. Casanova is the ideal man. He is the one you need, and you will understand it immediately. Then, of course, it will become clear: the point is not that he is so suitable for you, but that he has met a hundred women before you and it is not difficult for him to portray the ideal “prince charming” that you need. At the same time, he will be completely sincere: right now he intends to make you absolutely happy, because he sincerely loves you and will love you forever. In his coordinate system - three months. Best case scenario.
To recognize a womanizer, you need to understand what a womanizer is. Simply put, this word is used to describe a man who is looking for a sexual relationship without any obligations, connections or consequences.
A womanizer will use every trick he can think of to get you into bed. As soon as you let him out of your sight, he will do the same to someone behind your back.
Masters of disguise
A womanizer by nature is unable to maintain a monogamous relationship. His ego is so inflated that he would feel unable to remain faithful to one woman. He is sure that there are girls who need such a man.
He will look charming, slutty and have something that will make you go weak in the knees just by looking at him. He will flatter you and shower you with compliments so that you fall into his network. Don't be fooled by the feeling he makes because he is manipulating you and you are playing into his hands.
Definition of a womanizer
There are a few words that immediately come to mind when you are asked to describe such a person. Charming, attentive, mysterious, handsome - these words can describe such a man.
The word "womanizer" is a general term. The most common type of womanizer is the alpha male: no matter what situation you meet this man, he always makes sure that men envy him and women keep their eyes on him. He feels like a king and may treat you like a queen, but after a few dates you will turn from a queen to a pumpkin. The first thing that should alert you is his excessive self-confidence.
Detection
There are a number of signs you can look out for if you feel like you might be caught up in a relationship with a womanizer. Women often do not realize that they are involved in such relationships. You need to look for signs of a womanizer from the very beginning, before it’s too late.
Affectionate names. A serial womanizer will call you different affectionate words, for example, “bunny” or “cat.” He uses such names so that he doesn't accidentally call you by another name. Keep in mind that if your man calls you such affectionate words, it does not always mean that he is a womanizer.
Mobile phone. Womanizers who are in relationships will always protect their mobile phones. Even if you never thought to look, if you did, you would find that he doesn't have any messages. They always clear their phone of suspicious information that could expose them.
Vanity. All womanizers are inherently vain. They think the world should revolve around them, and their inflated egos make them believe that this attitude towards women is completely normal. They take great care of their appearance and are usually beautiful and well-groomed.
Trust your instincts
It's important that you trust your instincts when it comes to your relationships, as women's intuition tends to be right. Men have been resorting to this attitude towards women for several generations. And, no matter what you think, if a man himself does not want to change, then no amount of love from a good woman will ever change him.
Our Borka is a womanizer and Sasha is a womanizer,
Seryoga is also a womanizer.
And who is not a womanizer, who is not a womanizer?
Yes, the one who has never seen women.
"Dune"
I was asked to write an interesting article about why some men become womanizers. So I decided to figure out who a womanizer is and whether it is possible to build a relationship with him.
If you look at Wikipedia, a womanizer is a man who shows increased interest in women. And if you look from a medical point of view, some womanizers suffer from a disease called intimate phobia. The most interesting thing is that it occurs in both men and women.
Intimophobia is the avoidance of close, long-term emotional relationships with a sexual partner.
Intimophobia indicates that improper upbringing of a child in single-parent families or unbalanced mothers who could lash out at the child also showed their disrespectful attitude towards men. The child absorbs this and does not want such an attitude towards himself in the future. As a result, a man develops a fear of a long-term relationship.
Most often, intimate phobes are lonely or quickly get divorced. But, the most interesting thing is that they can be very intellectually developed and achieve great success in their careers and in society. The most important feature of intimate phobes is a strong desire for sex, but at the same time a reluctance to spend money on a partner.
Intimophobes are great for those who are looking for short-term connections, but not for those who want a serious relationship. It is advisable not to build relationships with intimate phobias in order to avoid problems, since intimate phobia is a disease that needs to be treated.
Why do people still become womanizers?
Most often this happens if a man is offended by a woman. Broken love! Men's pride is hurt! Therefore, some men avoid serious relationships so as not to experience disappointment again, and some simply deliberately take revenge on all women.
It can also be noted that a womanizer has a certain amount of self-doubt. In this way he tries to assert himself. And he strives to seduce beautiful, smart, unavailable women. It's like another trophy to add to his collection. And thus, it seems to him, he increases his self-esteem. But in the end he feels empty.
Men who are womanizers also have positive qualities: they are cheerful, generous, sexy, and sociable. Womanizers are often in a state of love; they can look after you beautifully and speak beautifully. They are in a constant state of celebration. Therefore, many women are attracted to such men. And some women even get excited that they can change such men. But more often than not, these women remain trophies.
Types of womanizers
Type No. 1 Sex machine
As a rule, they are sex addicts. For them, addiction is the same illness as drug addiction or alcoholism. All they have on their mind is sex. Most often they have promiscuous sex. For them, a woman is like a sport, like some kind of training equipment. His goal is not to please a woman, his goal is to please himself.
Type No. 2 Don Juan
This womanizer simply loves women, he adores them. He doesn't know where he will meet his passion next time.
This type of womanizer is very cheerful, sociable and generous; he also has sensuality and spiritual eroticism. With them the soul opens up. You feel welcome next to him. There is a lot of romance present. He looks with a loving gaze that is impossible to resist. A man gives a woman the feeling that she is special.
This type of man most often leaves behind very pleasant memories for a woman. Don Juans are most often looking for the ideal woman. This type of womanizer is capable of deep feelings and such men most often marry the woman they love. But even after marriage, he will not miss the opportunity to give a smile or a compliment to other women.
Type No. 3 Lovelace
Some sweet boy who brags about his connections. He has a very large list in the phone book. Most often, he meets several passions at the same time, he is afraid of being abandoned, there is a plan for a week or a month in advance, with whom and when he will meet.
It is very fashionable and stylish, and is popular among women. His telephone list usually consists of: “Natasha Dnepr”, “Sveta Moscow”, “Lena Rostov”, “Katya Kyiv”. No matter what city he goes to, a wonderful evening with a young lady from his phone book always awaits him. This type of womanizer most often includes men who have had their hearts broken or who are unsure of themselves. The womanizer-womanizer feeds on the energy of the fact that many women want him. He really likes to be around ladies.
Of course, if that unique one appears in his life, he will give up his list of ladies. But if possible, he will definitely meet with Katya from Kyiv.
Who falls for womanizers?
Inexperienced girls. Women who lack attention. Naive, lonely women craving romance.
Advice to Women: If you see that a man is a womanizer, then behave differently. Give him time to recognize in you the very ideal woman he has been looking for for so long. Become a friend to him, first of all, heal him with your love. Perhaps he will become the most devoted man in your life, since he understands that each subsequent relationship only devastates him.
Real life example: I have a friend who is a womanizer and has had more than 100 women. I once asked him a question: “Please tell me, out of a hundred women, wasn’t there one you wanted to focus on?” To which he answered me: “Perhaps she was, but we simply did not have enough time to get to know each other better. If I now had the opportunity to change all the women for one who would be real and accept me for who I am, I would do it without hesitation.” We can conclude: out of a hundred women, he needs only one.
The paradox is that every womanizer remembers the woman who sincerely loved him or simply accepted him for who he is.
I really like O.G.’s statement. Torsunova: “If a man is a womanizer, women can enjoy him, but they will never respect him.”
Relationship coach Rozary Gritskevich
“My longest relationship lasted about a month - it was very difficult and in the end it felt like we had been married for fifteen years. I believe that To tie yourself to one woman means to deprive yourself of freedom! I love myself, so as soon as I start to feel unhealthy attachment, I immediately end the relationship. Perhaps one day I will want a family, children - everything has its time, now I am 30 years old, and my time has not come yet. The thought of marriage doesn’t scare me, but I’m afraid of being one of those men who, after work, instead of going to the bar, are forced to go home to their wife, buy diapers and tampons in the store, ask their wife to take time off to meet with friends, and see their once beloved and beautiful woman in a mask. from cucumbers - I find all this unacceptable.
I remember with nostalgia the times when I had relationships with three women at the same time. I often discuss my girls with my friends: sometimes we compete to see who can win some beauty that we all like, the main prize is sex with her, then we make sure to share our impressions. I don’t experience loneliness, because I consider this a sign of limited people - I feel good and interesting with myself. I chose this format of relationships with women because it's easy, convenient and doesn't oblige you to anything. What attracts me most about girls is their ability to behave correctly with a man and their beautiful breasts, of course. The word “womanizer” is too rude and does not convey my essence; “a man who really loves women” suits me better.
The man is a womanizer
When I hear that some man is a womanizer, I most likely won’t believe it. Yes, they occur, perhaps more often than some would like, but I came across them a couple of times, no more. But women who could not keep a man next to them often hid it by saying that their man was a womanizer. - Veronica
It seems to me that women adore men who are womanizers and lose their heads in wanting to get him, but at the same time, this is most likely something similar to a sporting interest, since the love of a womanizer is something like spilled ether, it is fleeting. - Milana
A man loves women, what else can be said. Just like a womanizer, don’t feed him, he will still “love” all the women around him. To love is a strong word, but rather to simply use it. Not to use, but rather to use, but he will do it beautifully, he will show increased interest in a woman, it’s not for nothing that womanizers are also called ladies’ men, ladies’ men. - Alice
The psychology of a womanizer is to get under the skirt of the maximum number of individuals of the opposite sex.
It is believed that a womanizer is a man or guy who is obsessed with women. Womanizers know how to look after beautifully, but at the same time they are not capable of long-term relationships.
Can a womanizer love? Thousands of women ask this question, and among these thousands were several of my friends. Since I am against generalization, even when it concerns men, I decided to look into this issue in more detail. And so, the starting point, the label is a womanizer! I asked my friends about what thoughts, questions, associations, etc. they had. at a time when they hear that some man is a womanizer or someone's boyfriend is a womanizer. And this is what I heard in response.
When I was still very young, I had a guy I knew who was a womanizer. I don’t know how his future life turned out, but in those days he had his own small harem and he didn’t even hide it. I won’t hide it, but sometimes I wanted him to turn his attention to me. - Elena
It seems to me that it is impossible to see a womanizer in a still young guy. How can one recognize a womanizer in a young man if his reaction to women is dictated by a hormonal explosion? Rather, it is a process of self-knowledge, self-study. Due to the fact that the guy is very sociable and has a lot of girlfriends, he cannot be called a womanizer. - Zarina
The guy is a womanizer, not a man, but a young guy - he’s more of a pick-up artist, and if there were a hierarchy among pick-up artists, then this is the most pathetic kind of womanizer. Guys become such womanizers out of fear of their wretchedness. These failed Don Juans, womanizers, Casanovas proudly call themselves pick-up artists, but at the same time remain faithful to their fist at best. - Alice
Womanizers lose interest in a woman as soon as they get what they want, and therefore they do not want to linger on one woman, but immediately move on to the next, previously prepared one.
I think I won’t be wrong if I assume that there are no former womanizers. Such men can be easily noticed, they feel at ease in any environment, they always know what to say, they are very courteous and polite, but at the same time they treat all women at once. - Alice
If a man is a former womanizer, then either the grave will correct him, or he must meet the strongest love. Although I personally don’t believe that a womanizer can change. Well, he fell in love, so what? How long? As soon as you shake a fresh skirt in front of him, a new interest awakens - Milana
With a woman, a womanizer behaves as if she were the queen of the world. A few precise compliments, a couple of guessed wishes, and the lady begins to fall in love. Very soon, the former womanizer seduces another queen in order to become an ex again, leaving behind a crowd of girls with broken hearts. - Irina
Why cheating happens, the reasons why people cheat while married, is it possible to avoid adultery and how to treat it.
A womanizer is afraid of the truth about himself like fire and hides it behind self-confidence, arrogance, and rudeness. As soon as a womanizer senses danger, he is already on his way to another woman.
It should be noted that a womanizer is not a lifelong status for one man; in most cases, this is his temporary condition. At some point, the womanizer gets tired of his “travels” and finds a “safe haven”, with which, as a rule, he lives for a long time.
I am a man! There is nothing wrong with the fact that I am a man and have a desire to conquer and seduce women. I'm not going to make excuses or apologize for this. I do what I want and I have every right to do it. - the most popular statement of womanizers.
Why is it so easy for a womanizer to charm any woman?
The answer to this question is very simple. A womanizer has experience communicating with different types of women. When meeting a particular woman, a womanizer easily identifies her as one of his “types” and behaves according to certain tactics. He knows how to hook this or that woman: what to say to her and how to behave with her. And the woman, in turn, falls into this game and begins to think that he is her destiny, that he is the best man in the world and that they are made for each other. And the womanizer undoubtedly likes that he is considered the best.
Psychologists about womanizers:
- “Womanizer-athlete” - suffer from Casanova syndrome, the most important thing for them is to break their previous record for the number of beautiful ladies. The most popular type of womanizer. Often such womanizers keep special notebooks where they keep lists of “victories.”
- A “whining womanizer” - he’s used to constantly telling everyone about his unhappy life, that his wife doesn’t understand him and therefore he’s simply forced to satisfy his needs on the side. To enhance the effect, such a womanizer often says that as soon as he finds his woman, he will immediately leave his wife.
- “Lover of women” - such womanizers most often truly love each of their women, treat them with respect and do not do things that could somehow upset them. They are rare.
How to recognize a womanizer
Not only actions, but also demeanor says a lot about a man. By carefully observing a man the first time you meet, you can understand who is in front of you.
So, you can recognize a womanizer by the following signs:
- when meeting a girl he behaves too confidently, although he has no reason for this;
- in conversation uses prepared phrases that are suitable for any woman and in any situation - clichés and banal compliments;
- immediately gives a verbal portrait of himself (a way to save time on dating is to artificially get closer to the lady);
- dressed too flashily, with the intention of giving the impression of a successful and popular man;
- when communicating with a new acquaintance, he does not miss the opportunity to get to know each other further - such a man can pay attention to other women right during a conversation, letting them know that he is not busy at the moment;
- bombards the girl with compliments, which can confuse her - and therefore disarm her companion;
- makes appointments only late in the evening, while during the day he is completely unavailable - a sure sign that a man does not want to mix romantic relationships with his daily life.
The womanizer continues his acquaintance not at all in order to get closer to the girl, her interests, concerns and personal qualities. On the contrary, all he strives for is to quickly attract her to him and into his bed.
Thus, this type of man does not rise to a relationship, but pulls a woman down to his level - sex. The psychological discomfort that a woman experiences in this case is complemented by the fact that after intimacy one cannot count on any obligations on his part. Often, a womanizer loses interest in his partner and disappears from her field of vision, returning to his favorite pastime - searching for a new victim.
My husband is a womanizer
No woman will be surprised by the news that men like to go “on the side.” From time immemorial, our men have been hunters and breadwinners. And if most of them cope with the role of breadwinners with a C grade, then hunting is their element. Well, to hunt down and conquer is a game that they play with pleasure and only like to emerge victorious. Womanizers should not be confused with Don Juans. Womanizers get married, but do not miss the opportunity to have fun. Don Juans are conquerors of women's hearts and their plans do not include building a family, much less having children.
Many women complained to their friends or mentally said the phrase: “My husband is a womanizer.” And recognizing this fact, surveillance of your loved one begins: quietly, while he is sleeping, you check his pockets, look for incriminating notes in his mobile phone, carefully sniff his clothes, hoping to catch the aroma of someone else’s perfume. A waste of nerves. Remember how in the joke, when a wife found her husband with someone else, he said: “Darling, now figure out what to tell me.”
A womanizer will always get out. Neither love nor children will stop him from cheating. He loves you, family is important to him, but he is interested in new sexual relationships. It's just a game that you can accept and tolerate, or you can just leave this person. And believe me, not even a couple of days will pass before he confesses. Because he needs you, and fleeting hobbies are the drive that he so lacks in life.
Womanizers can be divided into several categories:
1. Collectors
For such men, the process of conquest is important. They look after you beautifully, give you gifts, take you to restaurants and whisper tender words that any woman dreams of hearing. But having conquered and conquered, they lose interest and switch to the next “victim”.
2. Ladies' man
He just loves to be the center of attention. He is not always handsome, most often he has a lot of complexes, he is not strong enough in bed. Knowing this very well, he chose the path of conquering women’s ears. His eloquence is amazing. He will not let a single “skirt” pass by without saying a compliment. And he regards every smile as a victory. More often than not, he is not taken seriously. For women, he is just a joke or a person with whom you can simply flirt with nothing to do.
3. Sexually horny
How are we women familiar with this type of man? He thinks he's the best. He clings to you like a weed, causing only disgust and some pity. How weak he is as a man, if even his wife does not want to have a relationship with him. Well, if only fulfilling your duty, when your head doesn’t hurt. And next to this type (it’s hard to call him a man), for some reason she hurts very often.
4. Pick-up artist
Fashion criterion. This is a super man who knows all the loopholes and will find an approach to any woman. It's just a player. And for him it is not only important to conquer the intended goal, but to be glad that he was not mistaken in giving the correct “diagnosis” to the lady. He selects only “complex objects” and achieves complete dissolution in it. For him, such a game is the meaning of life.
The types are clear, but that doesn’t make it any easier. What to do if your husband is playing “on the side”? And there are two options - live with him or separate. It is impossible to re-educate such a person. In general, it’s a good idea to think about why your husband has become uninteresting in you. How does he see you most often? Most likely in an old, shabby robe, and with curlers on his head. Do you like yourself when you look in the mirror? Where is your light gait, charming slender legs, wasp waist and sparkle in your eyes? How much time do you devote to yourself? Of course, you have a family, you don’t have time for yourself. Is this a family? And are your efforts worth it to understand that your husband is not interested in you, exhausted, disheveled, but with a delicious dinner on the table? Love yourself, dear ladies, and you will definitely be loved in return.
The main womanizer of all times was the incomparable Giacomo Giovanni Casanova. According to history, when the count was about twenty, his bride died of pneumonia. Casanova wanted to commit suicide, but after thinking he limited himself to the decision - never to marry. And from that moment on, he warned all the women with whom he had intimate relationships that he had no intentions other than sex and that no obligations to each other would arise from their relationship.
